Letter from the Elterngeldstelle (parental allowance office): decision and repayment
The Elterngeldstelle (parental allowance office) sends you the Elterngeldbescheid (parental allowance decision). After the payment period it often asks you to prove your income. This can lead to an additional payment or to a Rückforderung (repayment demand). Disputes about Elterngeld (parental allowance) go to the Sozialgerichte (social courts), so the rules of social law apply.
Typical letters
- Elterngeldbescheid (parental allowance decision)One month from the date the decision (Bescheid) is deemed delivered. A decision sent by post counts as delivered on the fourth day after it was posted.
- Rückforderung von Elterngeld (parental allowance repayment demand)One month from the date the decision (Bescheid) is deemed delivered. A decision sent by post counts as delivered on the fourth day after it was posted.
Vorläufig (provisional) or endgültig (final): what does your decision say?
Elterngeld is often granted provisionally (vorläufig), for example if you work part time while you receive it or if the tax assessment for the time before the birth is still missing (§ 8 Abs. 3 BEEG). After the payment period ends, you must prove your actual income (§ 8 Abs. 1 BEEG).
After that, the Elterngeldstelle makes a final decision. If you received too much, you pay it back. If you received too little, the rest is paid to you (§ 26 Abs. 2 BEEG in connection with § 328 Abs. 3 SGB III).
Widerspruch (objection) against the Elterngeldstelle: deadline and effect
You can file a Widerspruch (objection) against the decision within one month (§ 84 Abs. 1 SGG). A decision sent by post counts as delivered on the fourth day after it was posted (§ 37 Abs. 2 SGB X). How to file the Widerspruch is explained in the Rechtsbehelfsbelehrung (information on legal remedies, usually at the end of the letter).
For Elterngeld, a Widerspruch and a Klage (court action) have no suspensive effect (§ 13 BEEG). This means a repayment demand stays due for the time being.
Write your reply in German. German authorities work in German, so a letter in German is the safest way to make sure your reply is understood and processed. The templates (Vorlagen) on this site are in German.
Where can I get free help?
Free or low-cost help is available from social associations (Sozialverbände) such as VdK or SoVD (for members). If you have little money, you can apply at the Amtsgericht (local court) for a Beratungsschein, a voucher for advice from a lawyer (Beratungshilfe under the Beratungshilfegesetz). For insured persons and benefit recipients, a Widerspruch and a court case at the Sozialgericht (social court) cost no court fees (§ 183 SGG).
Common questions
How long do I have to file a Widerspruch against the Elterngeld decision?
One month from the date the decision is deemed delivered (§ 84 SGG). If the Rechtsbehelfsbelehrung (information on legal remedies) is missing or wrong, one year (§ 66 SGG).
Which Elterngeldstelle is responsible?
This depends on where you live. Each federal state decides which offices are its Elterngeldstellen. The address is on your decision.
Do I have to send anything after the payment period?
Yes, if your Elterngeld was granted provisionally: you must prove your actual income during the payment period (§ 8 Abs. 1 BEEG).
In which language should I write to the Elterngeldstelle?
In German. German authorities work in German, so a letter in German is the safest way to make sure your reply is understood and processed. The templates (Vorlagen) on this site are in German.
Sources (German law and official pages)
- § 8 BEEG: Auskunftspflicht, Nebenbestimmungen
- § 13 BEEG: Rechtsweg
- § 26 BEEG: Anwendung der Bücher des Sozialgesetzbuches
- § 328 SGB III: Vorläufige Entscheidung
- § 84 SGG: Frist und Form des Widerspruchs
- § 66 SGG: Rechtsbehelfsbelehrung
- § 37 SGB X: Bekanntgabe des Verwaltungsaktes
- § 1 Beratungshilfegesetz: Voraussetzungen der Beratungshilfe
- Sozialverband VdK Deutschland
- Sozialverband Deutschland (SoVD)
Research as of: 10 November 2026